Ryan & Holly · Overwhelmed

Feel more understood. Find your way back to calm.

Practical ADHD relationship guides and a seven-session programme from Ryan & Holly. Plus weighted comfort for the days that feel like too much.

Holly has ADHD. Ryan doesn't. Two perspectives, 16 years together.

Ryan and Holly, the founders of Overwhelmed
Two perspectives on ADHD. Real conversations. Practical help.
ADHD relationship support

The same misunderstandings shouldn't be the end of the story.

Choose practical help for the problem you're facing today, or follow a guided programme to understand each other and make a plan for what happens next.

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The practical starting point

The ADHD Relationship Guide Pack

For shutdowns, broken promises, resentment, mental load, misunderstandings and the moments you don't know what to say.

16 digital guidesReal-life examplesConversation tools
£19.99One-off purchaseExplore the guides
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A guided next step · Available now

The ADHD Couple Reset

Stop guessing what went wrong. Work through seven guided sessions with us and create your own Connection Plan.

7 video sessionsWorkbooksTogether or solo
£29.99One-off purchaseExplore the programme
Prefer to listen?

Six short Ryan & Holly conversations about the difficult moments in ADHD relationships.

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Ryan and Holly of Overwhelmed
Why we made Overwhelmed

Built from real life, not relationship theory.

Holly has ADHD. I don't. We've been together for 16 years, and we know how the same moment can feel completely different to two people.

We've got things wrong, had difficult conversations and learned that understanding matters — but what you do next matters too.

That's why we created practical relationship resources, alongside calming products available in the UK for the days when life feels overwhelming.

Two perspectives · Real conversations · Practical next steps
Meet Ryan & Holly
Calming weighted comfort

When you need to slow down, start with comfort.

For restless evenings and days that feel like too much. Discover thoughtful weighted essentials designed for comfort, not complications.

Free UK delivery · Usually Royal Mail's next-day service · Another courier when needed

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Full-body weighted comfort

Cotton Weighted Blanket

Soft, breathable weighted comfort for unwinding on restless evenings.

100% cotton6.8kg
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Overwhelmed weighted eye mask
A small pause in your day

Weighted Eye Mask

Gentle weighted comfort when you want to close your eyes and take a break from the noise.

Soft coverageMicro glass beads
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Customer experiences

What customers say about Overwhelmed.

A free place to begin

Not ready to buy? Start with a free guide.

Start with our free 18-page guide, When ADHD Gets Between Us. Understand why small moments become misunderstandings and explore practical ways to approach them differently.

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Cover artwork for the free 18-page When ADHD Gets Between Us guide by Ryan and Holly
Whatever brought you here

Find the support you need, at your own pace.

Start with the part of life that's feeling hardest right now. Whether that's your relationship or finding a practical first step, there's somewhere to begin.